Forgiveness. It takes a lot to be able to forgive. Our pride easily gets in the way. But here's the thing... Many think that forgiveness means that you go back to how things were as if nothing ever happened in whatever situation caused you the pain. Think of it like this: If you get burned from touching a hot stove, you don't just stop using the stove or pretend nothing ever happened. You store it in your mind and are aware that you will get burned if you are careless or atte

"Off with their heads!" -Queen of Hearts ❣Yup...that used to be me. Ruthless. If you had done me wrong, disappointed me, or made a mistake, I would write you off...right there in that moment. ❣Bitter. ❣Angry. "What do I need them for anyway?" -WRONG. ❣People make mistakes. My brokenness was pushing away those people who cared and were trying to be supportive. When they started growing too close to me, I sought out a flaw to send them "off with their heads." -It was easier. I

I will drive this point home for as long as I shall live, y'all! "People make time for the things they want to make time for." What matters most to you, you will ALWAYS find the time! Think on that the next time you use the "I'm too busy" excuse! #jaymeshiarlacoaching #beastmode #selfreflection #herewegrow #itsgrowtime #unleashthebeastwithin

With the pressure of always being the "strong one" and always feeling like we have to ALWAYS be "on," it is important you know and understand that it is okay to NOT be okay! Do yourself a favor and give this a listen.... I challenge you to face what I had avoided doing for SO long and man, oh man, was it a game changer! #jaymeshiarlacoaching #selflove #beastmode #beastmodeengaged #unleashthebeastwithin #herewegrow #itsgrowtime